Benefits of Family :
A happy home environment
Improved communication
Less family tension and fights
Better relationship
Benefits of Kids:
Increased Confidence and ability to reach goals
Better health and wellbeing
Improved Behaviour
Increased Enjoyment of school
Improved Concentration
Better Relationships
SleepTalk™ is a potentially powerful process that enables a parent to interact with their child in a powerful way. It is suggested by its creator that this educational technique enables a child’s mind to be focused on positive messages whilst the child is at the correct brainwave frequency of awareness during sleep. Through SleepTalk™, the interaction between parent and child serves to reinforce a sense of security and an ability to cope with daily life.
Sleep Talk is also known as The Goulding Sleeptalk Process
The Goulding SleepTalk™ for Children is a powerful process of positive parenting that allows parents to take back control of their children’s behaviour.
Children and family’s dealing with a range of issues such as tantrums, trauma, stress, and separation anxiety for example, including the physically, emotionally or intellectually impaired children respond well to the Goulding Process. The primary role of the SleepTalk™ for Children process is to allow your child to develop calmness and a positive self-image. To accept or re-establish a positive belief structure, replacing previously accepted negative suggestions. The Goulding process is presented by the parents each and every day only taking 2 minutes each evening.
Sleep Talk can assist in many ways:
Behavior Management:
-Sibling rivalry, Anxiety,Stress, Trauma, Bullying, Confidence
Education:
-Study, Concentration, Attitude, Communication, Achievments
Health Issues:
-Nail Biting, Asthma, Skin disorders, Eating
Toilet Issues:
-Enuresis, Pooing
Sleeping Issues:
-Nightmares and terrors, Fear of sleeping alone
Communication Issues:
-Choosing not to speak, Stuttering, Dribbling, Mumbling
Autistic Spectrum:
-Autism, Aspergers, AD(H)D
Why SleepTalk process works?
The greatest impact in kids occurs during the first five to seven years of a person’s life. During this time, a child is drawing information from those in authority and establishing a basis of selfimage for itself, regardless of what the information is. It is quite reasonable to believe that if a child is in a negative environment it will gain negative input and consequently it will start life with negative belief systems at the subconscious level. Conversely of course, a child in a positive environment will receive positive inputs and develop more positive belief systems.
The process involved in SleepTalk™ is based on the principles of repetitive learning associated with the sleep state. For many years, repetition has been accepted as an important feature of effective learning (Greig, 1994).
One of the greatest potential benefits of SleepTalk™ is that it provides context within which a child can safely negotiate emotions. These may consist of fears, anger, loneliness or uncertainty. Whatever the cause of the negative feelings, SleepTalk™ seeks to provide a means of reassuring a child of their safety, value and love. This is an outlet that is much needed. Unresolved issues can be acted out through any number of conscious or unconscious actions or symptoms (Cooke, 1987; Harris, 1987; Stefneos, 1987). These can include aggression, bed-wetting, self-isolation or depression.
CHILDREN LEARN WHAT THEY LIVE WITH
If a child lives with criticism,
He learns to condemn.
If a child lives with hostility,
He learns to fight.
If a child lives with ridicule,
He learns to be shy.
If a child lives with shame,
He learns to feel guilty.
If a child lives with tolerance,
He learns to be patient.
If a child lives with encouragement,
He learns confidence.
If a child lives with praise,
He learns to appreciate.
If a child lives with fairness,
He learns justice.
If a child lives with security,
He learns to have faith.
If a child lives with approval,
He learns to like himself.
If a child lives with acceptance & friendship.
HE LEARNS TO FIND LOVE
IN THE WORLD
Dorothy Law Nolte Ph.D.